Showing posts with label Marriage~Weddings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage~Weddings. Show all posts

Wednesday, September 4, 2019

Simple Woman's Daybook, September 2019

Hello friends!

It's another Simple Woman's Daybook! (Check out my posts from April, June, July, and August 2018 and January 2019.) I guess it's been a while? As always, I'm linking this up to the TSW Daybook blog hop. Maybe you'd like to give it a try too? It's pretty simple! 

For Today...

Looking out my window...

We've just had a mild brush with Hurricane Dorian. Our power went out around 9 last night, so I opened the windows to let the cool breeze in. The power came back on before 7 this morning, while I sat in my van charging my phone and chatting via Messenger with an American friend in Japan.  And now it's an easy breezy Wednesday afternoon.



In my garden...



Lantana flourishing!

I am thinking and I am thankful...

My daughter Lydia's wedding is in two days. I am so glad our area didn't have much storm damage, and we should be able to proceed with preparations! Here we are at her bridal shower with her fiance's mother, Beverly, on the left. 


I've known Bev for 17 years (though not nearly well enough!) since we went to church together until about 10 years ago. I'm touched that she suggested driving over to Clearwater together soon to see the Ringling Museum of Art. 

Meanwhile, let's get this wedding going! I'll be at the church tomorrow prepping the sanctuary and reception hall. 

I am wearing...


...the exact same thing I wore in my January post. So I'm using the same photo from then. Grace upon grace. Still so true!


What I will be wearing at the wedding is the "little black dress" that I wore to Joanna's wedding two years ago, as seen here.











One of my favorite things...

My CPAP machine, which I didn't get to use much last night. Amazing what you take for granted until you can't use it! I did get a few hours in with it this morning, though. Breathe! Oh, and I keep it in a hatbox on a side table wedged between my bed and my wall. Not glamorous, but quite functional!


I am creating...

Most of my art work lately is either photography or some sort of lettering. It is often calligraphy on paper, but I also like to do seasonal chalk art for my front hallway. I've already decorated this area for autumn. It is my tradition to put up some of the decorations before my birthday on September 7. It's also a way of wishing against the heat and humidity of Florida in summer...








I am listening...

  • Waymaker by Sinach


  • Old Church Choir by Zach Williams
  • The Breakup Song by Francesca Battistelli (about fear)

I am reading...

...Eat This Book by Eugene Peterson, who is brilliant of course. It is on reading Scripture as a narrative and bringing it to the interior of our hearts. Eat This Book was assigned for my Biblical Narrative class that I'm taking online at Asbury Theological Seminary this semester, along with a discipleship class called Gospel Catechesis. I checked the syllabus ahead of time and got an early jump on my text and Scripture readings the week before I was scheduled to start. I still had a lot of online work to do yesterday afternoon before the power went out. I watched lecture videos and posted on the discussion forums and then BLINK! Darkness! I was just in time!

Here's are a few of my books for this semester. Most of my texts are on Kindle. I read and write at my tilting table, which I dyed turquoise blue and wood burned along the bottom edge to say: "Fill your soul with all good things and let the beauty pour forth." That's one of my mottoes for life.



I am hoping...

...and completely trusting, that God will continue to guide my paths as he has done in rather unusual ways until now. In my Vocation of Ministry class during the summer we had to develop a "Rule of Life" (a plan for consecrated living), as well as a "Vision of Ministry" (what we think we will do with our seminary education). People often ask me about my ministry plans after I finish, and I usually reply, “I would like to work on a church staff as a versatile resource. I want to teach, disciple, mentor, and encourage women, as well as minister to those who are in vulnerable situations.” I believe that professional goal, or something similar to it, would fit my fluid, poetic, empathetic  personality and giftings. 

But I also realize this is a challenge since I am a divorced older woman with 10 mostly grown children. I was talking about this with a friend earlier this year, and she prayed that God would show me a "divinely elegant solution" - I love that phrase so much! It's been running through my head ever since I recalled this conversation a few days ago. What's it going to be, God? What's the plan?

Right now the plan is to slow down a bit. Instead of taking three classes as I've done in previous fall and spring semesters, I'm down to two. This is for two main reasons. I'm home schooling my youngest teen again, which was not in my plan when I started seminary a year ago. But she needs me, and she takes priority right now. I'm not giving up my life, but I am purposely adjusting it. The second reason is so that I can fully absorb what I'm learning by focusing my study time more intently. I love the ministry philosophy in this video, which happens to feature the aforementioned Eugene Peterson: Godspeed: The Pace of Being Known. It's funny that I saw this video last year and wished I could be part of the Anglican communion. And last December I did, quite unexpectedly, end up in a small Episcopal church with a dear friend and her husband, and so many sweet saints who love the Gospel, the Scriptures, prayer, and service to the community. The priest is also a graduate of the same seminary I attend. I'm so blessed.

I was reading this section from my January post and noted what I'd hoped then: "that my shoulder stops hurting." And it did! I went to an orthopedist for a cortisone shot which he said might last a few months, and it's been over six, and I'm so pleased. I did, however, fall off a waterfall this summer and hurt my back again, but that's another story.

In my kitchen...

Here is what is left of my hurricane stash. I think I'll be donating a whole lot of granola bars to a local community pantry, Hope Helps, via our church's Food on the Fourth program!


This is not my kitchen, but my daughter Mary's. I had stopped by after church last Sunday to bring birthday presents for my grandson, and while I was there, they were making pasta from scratch. I tried my hand at it.






I brought some of the yummy pasta home and froze it, and finally enjoyed it with butter today!

Shared Quote:

"Christians feed on Scripture. Holy Scripture nurtures the holy community as food nurtures the human body. Christians don't simply learn or study or use Scripture; we assimilate it, take it into our lives in such a way that it gets metabolized into acts of love, cups of cold water, missions into all the world, healing and evangelism and justice in Jesus' name, hands raised in adoration of the Father, feet washed in company with the Son." Eugene Peterson, Eat This Book, p. 18

"Stories suffer misinterpretation when we don't submit to them simply as stories. We are caught off-guard when divine revelation arrives in such ordinary garb and mistakenly thing that it's our job to dress it up in the latest Paris silk gown of theology, or to outfit it in a sturdy three-piece suit of ethics before we can deal with it. The simple, or not so simple, story is soon, like David under Saul's armor, so encumbered with moral admonitions, theological constructs, and scholarly debates that it can hardly move. There are, of course, always moral, theological, historical elements in these stories that need to be studied and ascertained, but never in spite of or in defiance of the story that is being told." Eugene Peterson, Eat This Book, p. 43

Post script...

In this section, we share a link! So here's a good blog: Healthy Spirituality with Jean Wise. Recent favorite articles have included The Spiritual Practice of Wonder and Visio Divina – The Practice and Resources

If you enjoyed reading my daybook and would like to create one of your own, HERE is the link to the format, guidelines and complete list of prompts.




Closing notes...

I pray all of God's abundant blessings on all who read this. 
Grace and peace,
Virginia Knowles

Monday, May 29, 2017

Joanna Loves David: Wedding & Reception


My fourth daughter, Joanna, married David on May 6!

The pictures must start here, with the ring bearer racing down the aisle (mommy had candy waiting) and losing his shoe!

Meanwhile, his little sister toddled calmly down the aisle.


Joanna asked both her father and me to walk her down the aisle.


Joanna and David greet and thank their guests.


His vows...


And hers... (this photo taken by The Hornes Photo)


Oh, wedded bliss!


Victory!


My father is on the right.


And then outside under the oak trees for photos of the bridal party.

Mommy took his big stick away and threw it behind the bridesmaids, but the ring bearer is still all wound up!



He finally settled down. After the official picture, he decided to retrieve the stick, and then squeeze himself back through the line of bridesmaids.


Little kids and big sticks! What can I say?


This pic is just for the grownups!


And then on to the beautiful reception at a waterfront civic center.



The bride and groom dance the night away...




The bride's three brothers and one of her six sisters.


Our neighbor and my dad hit it off wonderfully with story-telling.


My oldest daughter's family!



Three sisters!


The groom's parents, Cris and Chuck, are wonderful people, and I'm so glad that Joanna and David live near them.



Beautiful cake table!





Traditional father-daughter dance...


Each of the bride's and groom's parents offered a toast or little speech. Here's mine...




Monday, May 15, 2017

Wedding Preparation!



My daughter Joanna got married to David a little over a week ago! She's my fourth daughter, and this was the third wedding in our family. I was not overly involved in planning it, since it was out of town and she had an eager army of sisters and friends. I'm better for some of the hands-on projects at the end.

The flower girl basket...


...hand-painted and embellished with lace!


The ring box...





The supply kit for helping set up at the church...



...which came in really handy when I discovered that they needed signs for the guest book and gift tables, and I just happened to have picture frames, ivory paper, and calligraphy pens.



The bride's father, grandfather (my dad), and three brothers at the rehearsal, looking mighty dapper.


My seventh (and youngest daughter), looking so grown up!


One of my four grandsons, the ring bearer, who is just turning three. 


...rehearsing with little sister, the flower girl.


The rehearsal dinner, under the oak trees on the church lawn...


...twinkly lights, and my oldest daughter and fifth daughter.


The next morning, day of the wedding, is also my oldest son's 20th birthday! We celebrate at Dunkin Donuts. I love his hugs!


Off with my third daughter to Target to buy last minute supplies for making boutonnieres and corsages. I threaten to buy a Cinco de Mayo wreath for my hair.


Sitting on the floor at the salon where the bride and her bridesmaids (and this mama) are getting all dolled up - and making boutonnieres for the groom and groomsmen. I have never seen flowers like these yellow balls before.


Two of the bridesmaids!


The maid of honor...


...and the mama. That's me.


Mom of the bride and mom of the groom, both very blessed by this wedding of our beloved children. She's an amazing lady.


My fifth daughter, one of the bridesmaids.


And here's the bride, ready to go! Isn't she gorgeous?


Stay tuned for photos of the wedding and reception!

Virginia





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